Singapore Gambling Obsessions

We are aware of the facts that millions of people around the world are addicted or suffering from substance abuse and though we are safe in Singapore we are not 100% immune. The real issue is that people do not share the problem because they are afraid of the insults and negative comments. This leads to serious issues where even treatment and medication cannot help to treat them. That is why getting addiction therapy in Singapore is important.

However, before going into therapy it is important to understand whether you are addicted or not. You should know that there are various types of addictions. You can be addicted to sugar if you cannot resist yourself from eating sweet products. It is very difficult to get away from the addiction once you are caught into it. In recent surveys and researches in Singapore,  it is proven that addiction brings so many negative emotions in a person, like depression, anxiety, jealousy, and much more. So, it is very essential that it is treated in the right way and at the right time.

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People have addictions which seem incomprehensible to people who don't
have those addictions. Take gambling as an example; non gamblers just don'
t understand how or why someone would spend every available opportunity
to sit in a casino and willingly dispose of all of their money. From an outside
view it looks like unbelievable stupidity. It seems to be a boring, repetitious
and frustrating hobby at best. On a logical level we wonder why those
people haven't worked out that 'the house always wins'. The gambler loves
to dance around and brag about the times he did win even though we all see
that the final outcome is that he has no home, no money in the bank and a
huge credit debt. Yet, on a small winning streak he can be completely
oblivious to this fact. Without analyzing all the complexities of a gambling
addiction, we can summarize it as this: The gamblers belief in winning the big
one is greater than his belief in the reality of what has happened, what is
happening and what will predictably happen. In short, the dream is more
real than the reality.

The same can be said for drugs, alcohol, food, cigarettes, sex and all
addictions. The reality of an addicts life might be sheer devastation and yet
the belief that one more of whatever will be what the dream expects itself to
be.

It seems to me that a dream can hook into a compartment within the mind
and become completely embedded. It is like a sacred place and it contains
all we want. It could be wealth, happiness, love, security or whatever. We
all have desires and we all have dreams and we all have a place in out minds
in which we live out those possibilities. The gambler might have originally
had a dream of a big win. He probably had a couple of good wins initially
and that reinforced the dream. Somehow though, the gambler became
addicted to the dream. The big win becomes a primary point of reference
and in time all experiences loop back to that point of reference. That is, all
information and every experience gets filtered through the point of reference.
Some refer to this as classic denial. I call it 'The happy place'.

It seems impossible to talk logic or facts to an addict. They filter out what
you say; they might pretend to listen, or they argue with you or blank you
out completely. Their eyes glaze over, their ears shut you out and you can
almost hear them singing lah, lah lah as you speak. They have gone to the
happy place.

This is probably familiar to anyone who has had a relationship with someone
with one of these major addictions. What is less obvious is that most of us
are operating under a very similar pattern - and that is: Obsession.

Obsessions can be hidden or often seem harmless or perhaps a little quirky.
Someone else's obsession may be boring to us, but we don't pay much
attention as we are rarely affected by them to any real degree. Many of us
don't even know that we are obsessed. Yes, we all have our little happy
places and we all filter facts to suit our delusions. But, for many of us, we
are destroying our lives or at least our potential lives.

I remember when a friend of mine became obsessed with her boss. When
she first started talking about him I thought she sounded like a schoolgirl
with a secret crush. Within a short period of time, I wondered if she was
actually stalking the poor guy. (He was happily married and did not flirt or
encourage my friend in any way.) For almost two years she talked about
him as if they were lovers. Almost every conversation we had somehow
looped back to him. She would say things like 'Alan went to Bali last year,
so this year, I am going to Bali and I will stay at the same hotel that he
stayed in. Alan loves blue, so I am going to wear blue every day. I'm
learning to play tennis now, so Alan and I will have more in common. Alan
loves Italian food, so I...' Then there were the magical signs that Alan was
'the one,' 'We both have an older brother and a younger sister. He has a
cousin called Linda and so do I. Alan's name has four letters in it and so
does mine'. Almost everything she said started with, 'Did I mention
Alan...Alan would love this...That reminds me of Alan...Alan has one of
those...' Finally, it came to "I can't make any plans - Alan might call." and
"When Alan and I are married..."

This example might sound a little extreme or even delusional, but really, I
know heaps of women who think and live this way. I couldn't count the
number of women I know, who meet a guy, and by the second date start
talking obsessively and possessively about him. Not in a "I wonder or I
hope someday...' kind of a way either, but in a 'This is real and true...' kind
of way.

Mark is obsessed by horses. He spends hours every weekend searching
antique shops and the Internet to buy anything - that is, everything he can
find that has something to do with horses. He has ornaments, statues,
posters and jewelry stuffed in to three rooms of his home. He doesn't even
know what he owns and much of it has not even been unpacked. In effect,
half of his home is storage - crammed to the ceilings with boxes of stuff filled
with horse paraphernalia. He is not a jockey or an owner, nor is he a
farmer. He has no real relationship with horses at all. But he bores everyone
senseless with his endless conversations about horses.

Religion is another common obsession. I have had to sever friendships over
this one. I have had people break down and weep for my soul and plead
with me to listen. One woman really distressed me when she turned every
news report into a sign of 'the end of the world'. No matter what I said, she
seemed to answer with something along the lines of Satan talking through
me. Almost everything I said or did resulted in a biblical quote of the
Armageddon variety.

Rob was obsessed with money; he was a wealthy entrepreneur but didn't
seem to enjoy life very much. I remember traveling on a train with him and
commenting on the ocean views. He ignored me completely, and I noticed
that he was looking out the opposite window. "That land will be worth a
fortune one day. If I could subdivide..." I also gave him a gift once and he
pulled it apart. I thought that he didn't like it, but it turned out he liked it so
much that he had dismantled it to see how it worked. He wanted to copy
and export them. When we went to restaurants he would compare prices
with other restaurants. Going anywhere with him was like spending a day
with, The Count from Sesame Street!

Julie was obsessed with her looks. Every time we met, she would ask what
I thought of her hair, clothes, shoes or skin. She spent most of her spare
time and money on beauty products, clothes and hair care. When we went
out, she would ask if she was slimmer or younger looking than other women
in the room. She constantly reapplied make up and fiddled with her hair and
clothes. Boring!!!!

Then there are the health conscious and illness obsessions. Sport and work
are often common obsessions. I wonder if all of us might have at least one
thing which we refer to or compare to, in an unconscious, obsessive way.

It's like there is one main point of reference within the mind which we filter
almost all of our thoughts through. What concerns me about obsessions is
that we close off our awareness to infinite possibilities. How do we get to
better ways or different ways, if we keep getting stuck at only one way?
How much of ourselves are we really seeing if we can only define ourselves
as one thing? I also wonder, what this mechanism is that hooks into this one
thing, and why we don't seem to recognize it or question it. When so many
of these obsessions are destructive or at least severely limiting, then why
won't we let go of them.

What's really interesting is that we see it so clearly in others, but probably
have never taken the time to question ourselves. Have a casual look in the
next few days and you might actually find one or more of your own. If it
serves you well then stay with it, but if not, then it might be worth trying to
change it or replace it. Apart from driving your friend's nuts or boring them
to death, you might actually find something a lot more worthwhile to obsess
about.

This article is majorly about what an addiction therapy is, what are its important aspects that every one of us should know, and them how AlertenSafe addiction therapy can help us to get rid of different types of addictions.

In simple words, addiction therapy is a treatment that is done for the people who are either suffering from addiction and substance abuse or maybe they are into social media or mobile addiction. These are the major type of addictions that people are suffering from these days. You need to get back into your normal state when you get addicted and that is done by the addiction therapy. It includes exercising, medication and other sessions to get you get out of it as early as possible.

For instance, you are workaholic, or you are into gambling and pornography, you would probably know that at one point when you start to do these things too much, they start to affect your health. This is how it works and tarps you. You only think that this is something that you enjoy doing, while it takes away all the good moments from your life, just because you are doing it too much. So, all you need to have is addiction therapy at this stage. Another sign that you are addicted is whether people around you start saying that you are always busy, you do not have time or due to substance abuse you have red eyes. Right at the start, when you get such comments, you have to become conscious and start seeking help from the addiction therapist in Singapore against this problem.

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The importance of addiction therapy is very well now by almost every person in Singapore because it is a much talked about topic. Although the fact is quite a point and true that it is not given as much importance as it should be given, still its importance is still there and needs to be taken into consideration. There are so many reasons why it is so important to have timely addiction therapy.

Well, the major reason behind this is that it helps in early awareness and acknowledgment of the problem. After this, you can consider the problem and try to recover from it before it gets too late to get rid of it. It is the basic step to start with if you are suffering from the addiction problem because other than this there is no proper way out. So, realize that importance and get your addiction therapy as early as possible from the doctor that is specialized in this field of medicine.

Addiction therapy helps you get away from the addiction in a very simple way, and most of the times just with sitting session and without a medication or pain killer. Given below are some of the points that will help you know how it helps to recover from all types of addictions that one can possibly have.

1. The general and main goal of saving a person from addiction, especially gambling, drugs, and sex is to save that person from all types of negative thoughts. As we all know that this type of addiction comes from the negative emotions so they are dealt with to help the person get out of it as early as possible.
2. As long after the addiction therapy, you still want to go back and get that thing done that you used to do, but the therapy is so strong that it does not allow the person to go back. It basically makes the mind of patient very strong against that addiction.

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3. It deals with the underlying issues of the addiction and then it starts to remove them one by one. For instance, you want smoking cessation, but you go back again and again. The therapist will seek for the reason behind it and help you remove that. In this way when the reason is no more there, the addiction will be lost automatically.
4. You will also be provided with the things that will help you cope with this addiction, and later on with the stress that you feel while craving for it. So, no matter if you are having alcohol or cigarette addiction or sugar obsession, you will get rid of it in very short time.

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Addiction therapy is an important field in medical science that is helping people around the world. Our addiction therapy is must for both situations to keep the patient healthy and stable. You should also try to get the therapy if you feel you are having some kind of addiction problem that is bothering you right now. Addiction therapy will provide you with all the stools to stop that craving and at the same time give you stress reliever  to calm down. We in AlertenSafe are here to help you out with the process. Our team of expert therapists will not only understand you problem but also help you to get over your addiction so you can live a healthy life.